rustbuild: Fix LC_ID_DYLIB directives on OSX

Currently libraries installed by rustbuild on OSX have an incorrect
`LC_ID_DYLIB` directive located in the dynamic libraries that are
installed. The directive we expect looks like:

    @rpath/libstd.dylib

Which means that if you want to find that dynamic library you should
look at the dylib's other `@rpath` directives. Typically our `@rpath`
directives look like `@loader_path/../lib` for the compiler as that's
where the installed libraries will be located. Currently, though,
rustbuild produces dylibs with the directive that looks like:

    /Users/rustbuild/src/rust-buildbot/slave/nightly-dist-rustc-mac/build/build/x86_64-apple-darwin/stage1-std/x86_64-apple-darwin/release/deps/libstd-713ad88203512705.dylib

In other words, the build directory is encoded erroneously. The compiler
already [knows how] to change this directive, but it only passes that
argument when `-C rpath` is also passed. The rustbuild system, however,
explicitly [does not pass] this option explicitly and instead bakes its
own. This logic then also erroneously didn't pass `-Wl,-install_name`
like the compiler.

[knows how]: 4a008cccaa/src/librustc_trans/back/linker.rs (L210-L214)
[does not pass]: 4a008cccaa/src/bootstrap/bin/rustc.rs (L133-L158)

To fix this regression this patch introduces a new `-Z` flag, `-Z
osx-rpath-install-name` which basically just forces the compiler to take
the previous `-install_name` branch when creating a dynamic library.
Hopefully we can sort out a better rpath story in the future, but for
now this "hack" should suffice in getting our nightly builds back to the
same state as before.

Closes #38430

src/librustc/session/config.rs

@@ -928,6 +928,8 @@ options! {DebuggingOptions, DebuggingSetter, basic_debugging_options,
           "print some statistics about MIR"),
     always_encode_mir: bool = (false, parse_bool, [TRACKED],
           "encode MIR of all functions into the crate metadata"),
+    osx_rpath_install_name: bool = (false, parse_bool, [TRACKED],
+          "pass `-install_name @rpath/...` to the OSX linker"),
 }
 
 pub fn default_lib_output() -> CrateType {