Async drop fix for dropee from another crate (#140858)
Fixes https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/140858.
For `AsyncDestructor` impl def id was wrongly kept as a LocalDefId, which causes crash when dropee is declared in another crate.
Also, potential problem found:
when user crate drops type with async drop in dependency crate, and user crate doesn't enable `feature(async_drop)`, then sync drop version will be used.
Is it a problem? Do we need some notification about such situations?