arm: add unstable soft-float target feature
This has an actual usecase as mentioned [here](https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/116344#issuecomment-2575324988), and with my recent ARM float ABI changes there shouldn't be any soundness concerns any more. We will reject enabling this feature on `hf` targets, but disabling it on non-`hf` targets is entirely fine -- the target feature refers to whether softfloat emulation is used for float instructions, and is independent of the ABI which we set separately via `llvm_floatabi`.
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