Use queue-based `RwLock` on more platforms
This switches over Windows 7, SGX and Xous to the queue-based `RwLock` implementation added in #110211, thereby fixing #121949 for Windows 7 and partially resolving #114581 on SGX. TEEOS can't currently be switched because it doesn't have a good thread parking implementation.
CC `@roblabla` `@raoulstrackx` `@xobs` Could you help me test this, please?
r? `@ChrisDenton` the Windows stuff should be familiar to you
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