Implement `needs-subprocess` directive, and cleanup a bunch of tests to use `needs-{subprocess,threads}`
### Summary
Closes#128295.
- Implements `//@ needs-subprocess` directive in compiletest as requested in #128295. However, compiletest is a host tool, so we can't just try to spawn process because that spawns the process on *host*, not the *target*, under cross-compilation scenarios.
- The short-term solution is to add *Yet Another* list of allow-list targets.
- The long-term solution is to first check if a `$target` supports std, then try to run a binary to do run-time capability detection *on the target*. But that is tricky because you have to build-and-run a binary *for the target*.
- This PR picks the short-term solution, because the long-term solution is highly non-trivial, and it's already an improvement over individual `ignore-*`s all over the place.
- Opened an issue about the long-term solution in #135928.
- Documents `//@ needs-subprocess` in rustc-dev-guide.
- Replace `ignore-{wasm,wasm32,emscripten,sgx}` with `needs-{subprocess,threads}` where suitable in tests.
- Some drive-by test changes as I was trying to figure out if I could use `needs-{subprocess,threads}` and found some bits needlessly distracting.
Count of tests that use `ignore-{wasm,wasm32,emscripten,sgx}` before and after this PR:
| State | `ignore-sgx` | `ignore-wasm` | `ignore-emscripten` |
| - | - | - | - |
| Before this PR | 96 | 88 | 207 |
| After this PR | 36 | 38 | 61 |
<details>
<summary>Commands used to find out locally</summary>
```
--- before
[17:40] Joe:rust (fresh) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-sgx" tests | wc -l
96
[17:40] Joe:rust (fresh) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-wasm" tests | wc -l
88
[17:40] Joe:rust (fresh) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-emscripten" tests | wc -l
207
--- after
[17:39] Joe:rust (needs-subprocess-thread) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-sgx" tests | wc -l
36
[17:39] Joe:rust (needs-subprocess-thread) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-wasm" tests | wc -l
38
[17:39] Joe:rust (needs-subprocess-thread) | rg --no-ignore -l "ignore-emscripten" tests | wc -l
61
```
</details>
### Review advice
- Best reviewed commit-by-commit.
- Non-trivial test changes (not mechanically simple replacements) are split into individual commits to help with review. Their individual commit messages give some basic description of the changes.
- I *could* split some test changes out into another PR, but I found that I needed to change some tests to `needs-threads`, some to `needs-subprocess`, and some needed to use *both*, so they might conflict and become very annoying.
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r? ``@ghost`` (need to run try jobs)
try-job: x86_64-msvc-1
try-job: i686-msvc-1
try-job: i686-mingw
try-job: x86_64-mingw-1
try-job: x86_64-apple-1
try-job: aarch64-apple
try-job: aarch64-gnu
try-job: test-various
try-job: armhf-gnu
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