Use `Freeze` for `SourceFile`
This uses the `Freeze` type in `SourceFile` to let accessing `external_src` and `lines` be lock-free.
Behavior of `add_external_src` is changed to set `ExternalSourceKind::AbsentErr` on a hash mismatch which matches the documentation. `ExternalSourceKind::Unneeded` was removed as it's unused.
Based on https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/115401.