[codegen] assume the tag, not the relative discriminant
Address the issue mentioned in <https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/134024#issuecomment-3131782555> by changing discriminant calculation to `assume` on the originally-loaded `tag`, rather than on `cast(tag)-OFFSET`.
The previous way does make the *purpose* of the assume clearer, IMHO, since you see `assume(x != 4); if p { x } else { 4 }`, but doing it this way instead means that the `add`s optimize away in LLVM21, which is more important. And this new way is still easily thought of as being like metadata on the load saying specifically which value is impossible.
Demo of the LLVM20 vs LLVM21 difference: <https://llvm.godbolt.org/z/n54x5Mq1T>
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